이책 제6장 생산적인 대화에 나오는 Balancing Advocacy And Inquiry 절이 대화를 통한 문제해결에는 아주아주 좋은 것 같아서 몇가지 가이드를 뽑아봤습니다. 혹시, 외국인과 일하시는 분의 영어 구사 능력 향상을 위해서 원문을 그대로 올렸다는 -- 
라이온 ^^;
 
1. Protocols for improved advocacy
|  what to do  |  what to say  | 
|  State your assumptions, and describe the data that led to them.  |  "Here's what I think, and here's how got there" | 
|  Make your reasoning explicit.  |  "I came to this conclusion because ..."  | 
|  Explain the context of your point of view : Who will be affected by what you propose,how will they be affected,and why. Give examples, even if they're hypothetical or metaporical.  |  "Imagine that your're 16th-century Spanish exploerer. Here's how this idea would affect you.." | 
|  As you speak, try to picture the other people's perspectives on what you are saying.  | . | 
|  Publicly test your conclusions and assumptions. | . | 
|  Encourage others to explore your model, your assumptions, and your data.  |  "What do you think about what i just said?" Or, "do you see any flaws in my reasoning?" | 
|  Reveal where you are least clear in your thinking. Rather than making you vulnerable, this defuses the force of advocates who are opposed to you, and invites improvement. |  "Here's one aspect that you might help me thinking through..." | 
|  Even when advocating: listen,stay open,and encourage others to provide different view.  |  "Do you see it differently?"  | 
 
2. Protocols for improved inquiry
Ask others to make their thinking proccess visible.
|  what to do  |  what to say  | 
|  Gently walk people down the ladder of inference and find out what data they are operating from.  |  "What data do you have for that statement?" Or, more simply: "What leads you to say that?" | 
|  Use unaggressive language, particularly with people who are not familiar with these skill.  |  Instead of "What do you mean?" or "What's your proof?" say: "Can you help me understnad your thinking here?" | 
|  Draw out their reasoning. Find out as much as you can about why they are saying what they're saying.  |  "What is the significance of that?" or,"How does this relate to your other concerns?"  | 
|  Explain your reasons for inquiring, and how your inquiry relates to your own concerns, hopes, and needs.  |  "I'm asking you about your assumptions here because..."  | 
 
3. Protocols for facing a point of view with which you disagree
|  what to do  |  what to say  | 
|  Make sure you truly understand the other person's viw.  |  "If I follow you correctly, you're saying that.." | 
|  Explore,listen,and offer your own views in open way. |  Ask,"Have you considered.."and then raise your concerns and state what is leading you to have them.  | 
4. Protocols for when you are at an impasse
|  what to do  |  what to say  | 
|  Embrace the impasse, and tease apart the current thinking on both sides.  |  "What do we both know to be true?" Or, "What do we both sense is true, but have no data for yet?"  | 
|  Look for information that will helppeople move forward.  |  "What do we agree on, and what do we disagree on?"  | 
|  Ask if there is any way you might together design an experiment or inquiry that could provide new information.  |  .  | 
|  Consider each person's mental model as a piece of a larger puzzle.  |  "Are we starting from two very different sets of assumptions here? Where do they come form?"  | 
|  Ask what data or logic might change their views.  |  "What,then, would have to happen before you would consider the alternative?" | 
|  Ask for the group's help in redesigning the situation.  |  " It feels like we're getting into an impasses and I'm affrid we migh walk away without any better understanding. Have you got any ideas that will help us clarify our thinking?" | 
|  Don't let conversation stop with an "aggreement to disagree." |  " I don't understand the assumptions underlying our disagreement." |